New Dom would like me to refer to myself in the third person when i am in submissive role. He feels it will help me to explore my submission more and to hand more of myself to him (or something like that). At the same time i will call him Sir or Master, or as a further suggestion Lord. I nearly fell off my chair at that one and he wondered if i was being a little bratty! i expect i was, but i think that this girl will call Him Sir or Master rather than Lord!
If there is one thing that i know, it is that it will take me a while to get used to referring to myself in a whole new way. i know there are others on who do so as a matter of course, but for me this is new. But as ever i am up for a challenge and so i will be doing that today when he and i are together. Then when i right about it tomorrow i will give the whole third person a whirl here.
We are planning a longer time together this afternoon and evening and dinner will be involved, maybe i won't emerge again until tomorrow, who knows. I am expecting some new things today, but i don't know what he is planning and like the slight edge of the unknown anyway.
He has also decided to read my blog, to find out more about me, he says. i have nothing to hide, so i am happy for him to do that. He says that what he has read so far is interesting!
The main complication to all this is his lady who is far away. She is anxious about the relationship He and i are developing, but i am hoping to chat to her today. I have no wish to get between them and would walk away if i had to. I think though that this is something he needs and to be selfish here, so do i right now. He and i have a connection, one that i didn't expect. But i am not letting emotions get in the way too much, since i have been hurt before. Therefore this girl will take every day as it comes and enjoy what she can. You can't do more than that can you?
Third person isn't bad once you get use to it.
ReplyDeleteIt will take practice I know :)
DeleteThird person is interesting. I am too refer to myself as "this slut". I get to be "human" when we are out to dinner/lunch (unless He uses that trigger word) where no play time follows and immediately after playtime until He kissed me good bye at my car. So, "human" is barely ever. This started in August. I still have to catch myself. It is challenging because I don't see Him except maybe once a week.
ReplyDeleteThe funny thing, when I'm thinking, in general and what not, I almost always refer to myself in third person.
You will struggle, you will get frustrated, but you will persevere and succeed at the task.
yes and it is the challenge that appeals as usual!
DeleteI don;t think I could ever do it...but then again it depends on the led doesn't it. It depends on the style and character of the Dom. If that Dom is not interested in you as the third person then it will not follow. He is taking you at a faster pace than S ever did (only from what I read). But then S was your training ground. embrace the experiences.
ReplyDeleteHas New Dom got an Online or LDR sub, or has he a wife?
Good luck my friend , I admit I feel some envy for this new experience you are beginning.
L xx
I wasn't sure either when he suggested it, but we will see. Yes the pace is stepping up and that is a good thing, what I need.
DeleteHis other lady is long distance, but established and a real real relationship. It is easier for me knowing where I stand, it is she who is struggling. J xx
ps fantastic that he seems so close you are able to see him often.
ReplyDeleteYes he is close enough, thank goodness!
ReplyDeleteOne day at a time is plenty for most of us. I am not sure i could do the third person...good luck. He sounds good for you,,...what you need right now.
ReplyDeletehugs abby
Thanks abby i believe he is :)
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