Tuesday, 28 August 2012

30 Days of Submission - Day 1

Many other bloggers have posted their 30 days of submission and it feels to me that the time is right for me to start mine. If i can keep this going most days i should be able to finish by the time i go off on holiday on September 24th; we shall see.

So day 1:

Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why?

I started my  relationship with Sir knowing that he was a Dominant and that he wanted me to be his submissive. This essentially takes place within the confines of the bedroom (or whatever room or venue we happen to be in), but also spreads into online scenes, phone calls. This feels like a kind of planned submission. We are not quite playing a game, but we are part of an agreed arrangement within the context of which we are submissive and Dominant. 

Having said that, my submission and his dominance spreads beyond that. We can be discussing a topic, having a pretty usual, vanilla type of conversation when suddenly he will get all Dom on me and call me slut or whore and i am putty in his hands and immediate submissive. At the same time i might sit on the stool in his kitchen (for example), and spread my legs (no knickers) in the way he likes and he might turn round, see me and again he is my Dom and i am his sub. 

i would say that the longer that time goes on, and the more time we spend together (in real life, online, on the phone) then the move our relationship develops into one where i am more submissive and he is more Dominant. This is partly because we are trying out new things, he is teaching me more about my kinky, submissive side and the trust we have in each other grows.


  1. i'm not sure if i wanna do this. maybe. we'll see. i could do a few in a day to make up for lost time... thanks for sharing.

  2. It is quite repetitive but there is no doubt it gets you thinking. Good for me right now, as i don't have much to write about just now (haven't seen Sir for 2 weeks)

  3. I have started doing this now and I am only on day 4 and I'm already thinking about so much! You are right it's very repetitive and I also feel like I answer questions in a previous one that I could have answered in a newer one :P
    I have loved what I have read so far :D

  4. hi Artis and welcome. I think it is a great way of exploring your submission. Thanks for your kind words. xx

  5. This is great post. I am looking forward to read the remaining 29. :)
    Thank you for sharing and for making this journey to submission look so natural.

    1. Hello David, welcome to my blog and thanks for your lovely comment