Saturday, 13 July 2013

It's over

The relationship I have been having for the past 15 months with the man who I called Sir on this website and often outside of it is over.

There have been no arguments, no crossed words even. I believe we will always hold a special place in our hearts for each other, but it has ended.

We found each other at a time we needed what we found with each other. He is more ready than me to move into a new phase in his life and I respect him for his honesty. He is a lovely man, and I won't hear a word said against him.

I can't talk about it here yet. I need to articulate my thoughts and feelings to a few people in the real world first.

All I can say is that I am sad, very sad.


  1. I am so very sorry for you...hugs abby

  2. Sending you gentle hugs.


  3. aww Joolz,

    what wanderful memories you have and that it ended well



  4. I am sorry it has ended for you but both your lives are richer for having been apart of each other.

  5. I'm sorry. I was in a relationship that recently ended as well. Hurts.

  6. Oh Joolz, I'm sending hugs and positive energy. I am very sorry!


  7. Aww hugs sweetie. Im sure u're feeling really awful right now but i also sense you are at peace with the whole thing. It was a wonderful 15 minths and im sure you are both better for the time spent together. Be well!

  8. Thanks everyone. It's a new day here and I am not feeling quite so bad as I did after arriving home last night. Onwards and upwards and some analysis of it all in the days to come. xxx

  9. xxx
    will write if you allow

    1. Please do, here or email is fine.

      J xx