tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2387606604606576988.post7228383370667048388..comments2023-04-15T09:25:42.697+01:00Comments on The world of Joolz: Choices and their consequencesjuliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14347955569618276489noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2387606604606576988.post-84523886616875644762012-08-20T04:08:51.390+01:002012-08-20T04:08:51.390+01:00Yes, life is not a game. It's very serious. Wi...Yes, life is not a game. It's very serious. With lots of potential consequences. I've always lived my life as safely as possible.<br /><br />As for my relationship with Master, sometimes it's role-playing, but there are ways that it's not. Our relationship has certain parameters, within which it can exist, but not outside them. Being spanked and peed on isn't a requirement, but pleasing him is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2387606604606576988.post-38319843394380419252012-08-18T08:45:57.898+01:002012-08-18T08:45:57.898+01:00I agree the mindset is constant even if you are no...I agree the mindset is constant even if you are not part of a 24/7 relationship and perhaps that is because of the nature of submission and the levels of trust involved here. If you trust someone enough to spank you, to restrain you and whatever else it is you do in the bedroom, then it is not unnatural to seek advice from him on other matters. <br /><br />Thanks for your thoughts :)juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14347955569618276489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2387606604606576988.post-2626499582265881582012-08-18T08:31:22.064+01:002012-08-18T08:31:22.064+01:00I've often asked myself as well. i know i want...I've often asked myself as well. i know i want it to be 24/7. and i suppose i DO. but mostly the submission is most actively seen in the bedroom. that doesn't mean that things which we work on like not smoking, and behaving appropriately and not using sex / physical attributes as a weapon with other men gets left behind outside of the bedroom. in fact, it cannot be. so i would say the mindset is constant. the display, perhaps, is confined to the bedroom. But in all matters agreed upon I consider BIKSS master. Even in instances pertaining to topics /areas that we've specifically left out of his jurisdiction- i find myself getting his input, his advice, and asking what his opinions are. In those things, I do not necessarily give him power to make decisions, but his thoughts are still sought. Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2387606604606576988.post-40616472662442645252012-08-17T22:48:04.481+01:002012-08-17T22:48:04.481+01:00Hi tori,
I think that between us we can probably ...Hi tori,<br /><br />I think that between us we can probably sum it up pretty well. The biggest learning curve for me in this is the whole range of ways in which people live their lives but can still say that they are part of the whole TTWD lifestyle.<br /><br />All our lives are different, however we all have to exercise choice and face the consequences (whatever that might be).<br /><br />xxjuliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14347955569618276489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2387606604606576988.post-32605807931920253832012-08-17T22:37:48.607+01:002012-08-17T22:37:48.607+01:00Good post and one i think summed up better than my...Good post and one i think summed up better than my attempt lol...i do tend to ramble my thoughts down.<br /><br />I think rather than perhaps seeing it as a game or just fun (which on my part was probably not the best desciption) its that there are varying degrees within ttwd.<br /><br />For some because of their circumstances they are not able to be 24/7, for some its soley restricted to the bedroom regardless of circumstances i dont believe it makes anyone less or more submissive than anyone else or indeed any way better than another.<br /><br />I think ttwd as a label is all well and good but i also think too generic....how to explain it better<br /><br />If i say i practice ttwd that tells you that to some extent i engage in kink but with all the different types of kinks and dynamics out there it isnt specific.<br /><br />However if i say im a slave in an M/s tpe (total power exchange) dynamic that gives a more clearer picture of my relationship and its very different from those who practice domestic discipline for example....yet they all come under the umbrella of ttwd.<br /><br />Hope that makes sense, im attempting to make a clearer blog post myself..although dont hold me to that lol<br /><br />x<br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.com